The best most effective way of attaining your goals is to be very clear about what you want to achieve. We can sit here and wish all day but if we don't put some kind of a plan and timeline together, you'll end up being one of those people who live in the "there is always tomorrow" phrase. The thing about tomorrow is that can end up being years down the road and if this is something you truly want then you will put some pencil to paper and create the life you want to live and then do it!